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I want to tell you that all the answers to the mysteries of the ages are lurking under here but I can't even type that with a straight face.

I use my journal for posting ephemera that amuses me. I use my journal for posting about RL vexations that set me off on a rant. I use my journal to hoard things to my bosom that I might want to paw again later. I do not, in general, use my journal for deep introspection.

If you have a completely empty journal and I have NEVER chatted with you at any Com, I'm probably not going to friend you back. While Coms are full of lurkers -- the more the merrier -- the idea of lurkers on my personal LJ holds no appeal at all.

If I don't friend back, please do not be offended as no offence is intended I assure you. I may just feel that we still need to get to know each other better:

1)I try to keep my flist to a manageable size.

2)I prefer to have something in common with my friends beyond mutual fannish interests. That *doesn't* have to mean anything concrete, it might well just be an impression of the same kind of sense of humour garnered from com chat.

Be fabulous!
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blythechild
Apr. 18th, 2007 11:44 pm (UTC)
I have some gooey brains that I don't need.....
no, it's not an invitation to zombies.....

consider yourself friend-ed.
draycevixen
Apr. 19th, 2007 12:03 am (UTC)
Re: I have some gooey brains that I don't need.....
Damn it! And I thought you'd just solved my what to have for dinner dilemma...

Consider yourself friend-ed in return.
acforvendetta
Apr. 21st, 2007 01:37 am (UTC)
Another great Oscar quote . . .

"a sort of creeping common sense"

I like to think that I'm managing to stay at least two steps ahead of that one.
draycevixen
Apr. 21st, 2007 03:53 am (UTC)
I adore him... Um... you might have guessed *snerk*

I first read him when I was about 8 *strange child* I swear it was like lightbulbs went off behind my eyes. I'd had a really bad couple of years and I read a lot to escape and to be somebody (anybody else). That's why this quote is on my profile page "Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken." It really resonated with me. Then I read biographies of him and got angry about how the authorities destroyed him.*very strange child* We talked recently about finding your voice to question authority. That's when it all started with me.
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myxginxblossoms
Jun. 9th, 2007 03:25 pm (UTC)
I should like to request the honour of being friended by one Draycevixen, though I shall not be offended if the request is denied.
draycevixen
Jun. 9th, 2007 03:52 pm (UTC)
Frankly, I'm delighted and will happily friend you back.You'll be sorry... When I say terminally stupid I mean it!
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wednesday42
Aug. 19th, 2007 11:57 pm (UTC)
Having one's brain leak out one's ears sounds like an interesting sensation. Have friended you. :)
draycevixen
Aug. 21st, 2007 04:22 pm (UTC)
OK, you have been warned :D
zenrin
Sep. 1st, 2007 08:13 pm (UTC)
Dear Ms. Draycevixen,
I am new to the Gallery.. although I must admit
I have been lurking for a long time. I have missed your presence lately.
I'm not sure I have many brain cells to spare, but what the heck.
draycevixen
Oct. 2nd, 2007 05:33 pm (UTC)
Hi Zenrin:

Sorry to have taken a while to get back to you. As I "operate" a "friends only" journal, my friend list tends to stay on the sparse side. Most of my flist comes from a time during which I was working on my own RL writing less and playing in the Gallery more -- I got to "know" my Gallery friends before adding them.
However, as you've been friended by the great and fabulous Pinkilicious, that's a good enough recommendation for me!

You are hereby friended back... Sorry! :D
m31andy
Dec. 12th, 2007 06:17 pm (UTC)
I hope you don't mind if I friend you? If nothing else, I've got a post with your name on it (and several Zombie!fic links...)
draycevixen
Dec. 12th, 2007 06:43 pm (UTC)
Is thrilled and honoured...
Please, friend away! May I friend back?

My journal really is packed full of ear wax and tin foil helmets... really *useful* stuff. In fact, I recently got bored and took most of it down.

Given this information, if you still want to do it friend away. I'm sure you won't recognize anyone *cough* mentioned in recent posts. :D

Post with my name on it? *is nervous*
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elfbert
Jan. 2nd, 2008 10:24 pm (UTC)
Heya! Thought I'd wave and friend you...if that's okay?
draycevixen
Jan. 2nd, 2008 10:37 pm (UTC)
*Waves back* and is thrilled to return the friending. I'm normally a bit shy about friending because my journal really is full of drivel -- in fact I cleaned most of it out recently. I just like to know who I'm "playing" with! :D

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icudoc
Jan. 2nd, 2008 11:30 pm (UTC)
Hi seen you knocking about Fi and Andys fic and Elfberts LJ - mind another friend?
draycevixen
Jan. 3rd, 2008 12:26 am (UTC)
No, never. Any friend of Fi, Andy and Elf is a... better not finish that sentence as my mother raised me to be polite! *snerk*

As long as you understand that I'm serious about the ear wax and tin-foil helmet content of my journal you're welcome. Just click on my Friend link and I'll friend you back.

My memory may be playing up -- I'm full of cold meds have just returned from the Motherland with a Dickensian cough -- but didn't I see you trying to "badger" *cough* someone into writing femmeslash earlier? If so, you might want to check out Andy's list of LoM femmeslash as there are a couple of Phyllis/Annie NC-17 bits there. IGNORE mine -- I always go for the joke. She's attempting to badger people into writing more.

http://m31andy.livejournal.com/311739.html

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Youtube has failed me... *sob* - draycevixen - Jan. 4th, 2008 12:21 am (UTC) - Expand
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angeweeks
Jan. 9th, 2008 05:00 pm (UTC)
Dear Your Holiness,

I request the honour of friending you trying to get you on side before the boys break the door down if you don't mind give me a sign that you're not going to break my legs

I bring you some youtubey goodness as a small offering. The man in the segment is my hero I have a strange sense of humour and find it hard to take anything seriously, your Highness what's that large plank of wood for?
draycevixen
Jan. 9th, 2008 05:53 pm (UTC)
Ooooh! The Pope loves prayer and supplication particularly supplication *ahem* and so will be honoured to grant your request jumps up and down as long as I can return the friending. The boys want to know where Hard Gay lives did I mention that they're the London affiliate of the Gay Mafia? and for the record I found your youtube offering to be offensive laughed my arse off and an inappropriate tribute to Pope Di anytime petal! The Pope wished to show you a more appropriate offering replacing his dub of "The Sound of Music" with this...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s46R4afqRRI


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culf
Feb. 11th, 2008 03:02 pm (UTC)
Mind if I friend?
draycevixen
Feb. 11th, 2008 04:21 pm (UTC)
Not at all! I'll friend you back. Stand still and it won't hurt... much! I can only apologize again in advance... :D
scotschik
Feb. 16th, 2008 09:00 pm (UTC)
Can I be your friend?
(Tick Y or N) <- a la gr3 :)
draycevixen
Feb. 17th, 2008 01:25 am (UTC)
Ooooh a quiz! :D You and I appear to have a lovely set of mutual FIENDS friends so that would definitely be a yes. I can only apologize again in advance and I'll be friending you back. Hope that's OK.
elfwhistletree
Feb. 24th, 2008 12:27 pm (UTC)
I've been waiting to friend you until I finished Series 2 of LOM - as a token attempt to avoid spoilers.

Having now done this, I just now have to hope that my tentacles are sufficiently endearing to allow me to play ;-)
draycevixen
Feb. 24th, 2008 04:35 pm (UTC)
Awww! Your tentacles are simply adorable! ♥

I feel like I should apologize in advance for what will amount to prolonged exposure to tin foil helmets and ear wax.

Oh, and please excuse my recent "rantiness." I'm not usually known for my ranting -- unless it's comic ranting -- but recently a few things got under my blanket... and not in a good way *waggles eyebrows*

I'm friending you back, hope it's OK? If not, just speak up. This is the land of Do as thou wilt.
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ilovedoyle
Feb. 28th, 2008 02:14 am (UTC)
I am friending you due to mutual LoM love!!
reynardin
Mar. 6th, 2008 10:20 pm (UTC)
The Harkness Factor
Bearing my letter of recommendation from Blythechild, I humbly request your friendship.

I don't find too many people who love Torchwood, Simon Pegg, Jane Eyre, Pirates and Slash as much as I do.
And, of course, V - I've been a fanatic since I read the graphic novel at 16...
I don't tend to write about it, but I did rove the city last November 5th with a can of spray paint, a variety of posters and a bucket of wheat paste.

Thank you for your consideration,
Reynardin
draycevixen
Mar. 7th, 2008 05:10 am (UTC)
Re: The Harkness Factor
Sorry... I only just saw this, LJ's been playing silly buggers all day.

Any friend of Blythe's, well... is probably trouble but that's OK! *eg*

Sounds like we have a lot of scholarly *cough* interests in common although my journaling about such tends to fall in the random category... well most things I do fall into the random category. My slash fic postings tend to happen elsewhere other than challenge thingies. My journal is pretty much tin foil helmets and ceiling wax.

Anyway, go ahead and friend me if you're still interested and I'll friend back. IF the triviality of it all causes you nosebleeds feel free to unfriend, no harm, no foul.
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bistokids
Mar. 26th, 2008 01:19 pm (UTC)
Dear Ms Vixen,

May I be your friend please? I don't talk much but I like to listen! (Only just realised we weren't already friended). While I'm here, can I just give you a hearty pat on the back as earned by anyone who pimps Pros round other fandoms. more of that sort of behaviour is needed! :DD
draycevixen
Mar. 26th, 2008 02:16 pm (UTC)
Well you've read the warning statements I take it... my LJ really is full o' ear wax and tin foil helmets, no joke.

As you are ze big Pros fan -- your user name is a dead giveaway -- I do feel the need to make a further disclosure.

I'm the "Big Pimpin' Mama" of fan fiction anyway. I know what I like and I like to share. My mission on behalf of The Pros has been undertaken because I really hate most of the older Pros stories. I'm sorry, but even when I squint I just can't understand the OOC girliness, the huge amounts of rape/assault fic and the no-lube hard lurving.

I love the Pros because they're both such blokey blokes -- I love Sam/Gene too remember -- and I just can't wrap my head around how anyone can love the Pros and want to write them as EMO and abusive. Sorry, mini rant.

So... if you want to change your mind, no harm, no foul. If you still want in, welcome, have some Pink wafers and a cuppa... Friended.
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birggitt
Mar. 29th, 2008 02:03 am (UTC)
Well, I have not one, not two, but a lot of sick and twisted reasons to like the idea of be friended by you.
No, I won't share that reason.
What can I say?, I AM twisted.
draycevixen
Mar. 30th, 2008 05:03 am (UTC)
*waves at twisted lady while she watches the flashing pretties*

I'm sort of used to picking up making LJ friends through chatting at my various coms o' interest. I'm sorry, but I don't remember bumping into you anywhere. I'm normally very good with names and faces but that does no good online :D

I don't post any of my fan fiction here, just chit chat and play with tin foil helmets basically, so I must admit that I'm dead curious as to how you found your way to my doorstep.
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kiwisue
Apr. 1st, 2008 10:01 am (UTC)
Hi!

Friending you for the Pros-love. Also, I know bistokids. Hope my Pros writing doesn't squick your emo-detector (somehow doubt it, but you never know).
draycevixen
Apr. 1st, 2008 04:40 pm (UTC)
*Waves*

If you'll forgive me, I'm going to reply with my reply to Bistokids. I was raised to be a polite little Vixen and I do not wish to give offense -- I accept that two people can look at the same thing and have very different responses.

Well you've read the warning statements I take it... my LJ really is full o' ear wax and tin foil helmets, no joke.

As you are ze big Pros fan, I do feel the need to make a further disclosure.

I'm the "Big Pimpin' Mama" of fan fiction anyway. I know what I like and I like to share. My mission on behalf of The Pros has been undertaken because I really hate most of the older Pros stories. I'm sorry, but even when I squint I just can't understand the OOC girliness, the huge amounts of rape/assault fic and the no-lube hard lurving.

I love the Pros because they're both such blokey blokes -- I love Sam/Gene too (Life on Mars) remember -- and I just can't wrap my head around how anyone can love the Pros and want to write them as EMO and abusive. Sorry, mini rant.

So... if you want to change your mind, no harm, no foul. If you still want in, welcome, have some Pink wafers and a cuppa... Friended.


I really mean the last bit. IF you change your mind, no hard feelings. A lot of my posts are about nothing in particular. I do occasionally filter my posts to specific fandoms, currently V4V (an old fandom), Pros and LoM. I'll add you to the Pros filter.
probodie
Apr. 12th, 2008 10:11 pm (UTC)
Hi *waves*

Spotted you at discoveredinalj and would like to friend a fellow Pros fan *g*
draycevixen
Apr. 14th, 2008 08:08 pm (UTC)
*waves back* Sorry for the delay! There are days when my e-mail just likes to play silly buggers.

I feel that I should be clear about the following -- you'll excuse me as I copied it from my response to Bistokids...

Well you've read the warning statements I take it... my LJ really is full o' ear wax and tin foil helmets, no joke.

As you are ze big Pros fan I do feel the need to make a further disclosure.

I'm the "Big Pimpin' Mama" of fan fiction anyway. I know what I like and I like to share. My mission on behalf of The Pros has been undertaken because I really hate most of the older Pros stories. I'm sorry, but even when I squint I just can't understand the OOC girliness, the huge amounts of rape/assault fic and the no-lube hard lurving.

I love the Pros because they're both such blokey blokes -- I love Sam/Gene too remember -- and I just can't wrap my head around how anyone can love the Pros and want to write them as EMO and abusive. Sorry, mini rant.

So... if you want to change your mind, no harm, no foul. If you still want in, welcome, have some Pink wafers and a cuppa... Friend me and I'll friend you back! :D
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emmiem
Apr. 25th, 2008 12:32 am (UTC)
*waves* you are highly recommended by the fabulous Ducky.
mind if I add you??
draycevixen
Apr. 25th, 2008 04:06 am (UTC)

Any friend of Ducky's is.. erm... probably slightly insane so that works for me! Friend away and I'll friend you back... Sorry for that! :D
ailcia
Apr. 29th, 2008 11:51 am (UTC)
After reading your profile, I reckon you and I could get along famously! Would you mind awfully if I added you? Feel free to say nah! :D
draycevixen
Apr. 30th, 2008 03:49 am (UTC)

Oh eck Missus, I just saw this. I usually don't friend on short acquaintance, preferring to keep my flist on the lean side as I try to be interactive... erm... Makes me sound more kinky than I am...

While I meet a lot of people through fandom I don't usually friend based on fandom -- I enjoy com chat -- but on a sense that we might have more in common.

After rambling through all that I think we should give it a whirl. There's something about your profile page that just screams fabulous nutter... my favourite kind of nutter, although I like the variety pack.

So, if you friend me, I'll friend you back. If you get inside and decide the level of sheer tin foil helmet posts is too much feel free to back out, no harm no foul.
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anadventuress
May. 4th, 2008 12:13 am (UTC)
hi
I'm new to LJ and don't really know how the **** it works, but I've posted on a few email lists as unnaturalblonde, and Slantedlight knows me in old fashioned RL (how retro!) Lxx
draycevixen
May. 9th, 2008 02:22 am (UTC)
Re: hi

Hi!

BSL has offered up her hamster -- well she says it's a hamster but it's a bloody strange colour -- as a hostage to admit you, so stand still and prepare to be friended. It hurts less that way...

My LJ is singularly uninteresting so if you grow faint from the lack of brain nutrients to be found here, please feel free to unfriend, no harm no foul. :D
andreathelion
May. 7th, 2008 03:59 pm (UTC)
*Knock, knock*
schnuffi sent me over to hand over our pink handcuffs ...... I'm sure you know to use them well :D
schnuffi
May. 7th, 2008 04:42 pm (UTC)
You bet she does. Like the way you said our *snicker*
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severinne
Jul. 1st, 2008 03:39 am (UTC)
Can't believe I haven't done this sooner - then again, I can believe that since I'm rubbish at friending - but simply must friend someone who has now infested my brain with images of Sam and Gene in fencing whites. Hope you don't mind?
draycevixen
Jul. 1st, 2008 03:53 am (UTC)

All right then. I'm rubbish at the friending thing too, particularly as my LJ is basically full of tin foil helmets and lint. It's only locked down because of an old unfortunate other fandom related incident.

Almost everything in my LJ is viewable by all of my friends, but I do run some light filters so my monofandom friends don't have to read my occasional rants about fandoms that don't interest them at all and so that my handful of friends from an old Het fandom don't have to read any slash rants... they don't call me the Lube Queen for nothing... TMI?

So, I'm thinking you probably have no interest in V or Pros, so general friend list, slasher chicks and LoM, right?

If you still want to friend me go ahead and hit the button and I'll friend you back. If you've changed your mind, no harm no foul.

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norfolkdumpling
Jul. 8th, 2008 08:46 am (UTC)
Well hello there!

I'm a bit shy about this friending lark (I know - my wallflower personality tends to shine through...), but we seem to have had a good deal of bizarre fun chat and the ever-excellent Faws has suggested that we have a mutual love of Sir Glenister, LoM and the fabulous Green Wing...so here I am, asking if you would mind if I friended you please?

I am available for baby!Cortina sitting at short notice if that's any incentive...

draycevixen
Jul. 8th, 2008 12:46 pm (UTC)

I'm actually oddly shy about this friending lark also due in large part to the fact that my LJ is much more tin foil helmets than fandom related.

It is so selfless of you *cough* to offer to babysit the Cortinas. *g*

If you think you can stand the brain damage go ahead and friend me and I'll friend you back... Sorry about that! *g*
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sunray45
Jul. 10th, 2008 02:02 pm (UTC)
Hi Drayce,

I was sure I had friended you at some stage as I see you around quite often, then finally realised it was in The Safehouse. Yeah! I know! I'm a bit slow. ;)

Hope this is OK with you.
draycevixen
Jul. 10th, 2008 03:39 pm (UTC)

Of course it's all right with me! :D I'm a bit strangely shy about friending due to the fact that my LJ is full of tin foil helmets rather than really being about any specific fandom interests... for the most part.

Almost all of my posts are open to all friends. I practice some very light flist filters so that my monofandom friends don't have to wade through posts on a fandom of no interest to them and so that my Het reader friends from an old fandom I'm no longer active in don't have to read my slash rants. So, as I *think* you're a monofandom fan, we'll by pass by other fannish interests and book you in under general friends, Pros and slasher chick posts.

If you should start bleeding from the ears, feel free to de-friend me and I'll try not to sob too loudly, all right? *g* Friended! Sorry...
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